looking for a discrete or non discrete relationship but it has to be long term I'm finding that i'm missing the Intimacy that comes from a relationship .I'm looking for someone who makes me smile and hope I can do the same for someone else. I'm not so much interested in quany, but the quality has GOT to be there. Most of us are parents at least half the time and I hope you want to be with yours as much as I want to be with mine, but also hope that when we are "free" we can hang out and do stupid stuff like roller blading or romantic like watching the sunset at the beach. I tend not to be a drinker these days. Getting old is a ***** as far as hangovers are concerned, but once in a while, I will admit that i like to get ripped and just have FUN. Do you remember that word?! I can be a hermit and stay home for days... I don't need to be "where the action is" all the time, but I also want to go to the beach, camping, and dancing on a whim. Ultimately, I want someone who can be a laugh a minute an odly enough, a couch potato at the same time.