It seems most of us are looking for very similar things-companionship, respect, trust, love and all that goes with it. Having a great connection with someone is what I am really looking for. Yes, I have enjoyed being single-am sort of selective with the dating thing. My vision is to date a few really good men, not date lots of men-that is not who I am. We all have "criteria" when looking for someone, but I think there is always room to compromise. :) There is so much to share with the right person. So-what is it that you are looking for? Good friends to start and see what may happen. No smokers please, I enjoy kissing and being close to someone way too much to deal with the smoke issue. Hope you are making plans for a great day! I am. !