hi am jay independent thinker , jolly midnded ,open hearted person am lokkng for a girl who is active n have matured understanding any lady thinks if the person is married then the story is over?according to many people like my self thinks the story starts after marriage n some thinks it was big mistake by getting wrong girl married,but no person should not stop living life by thinking on it, but he should share the things to the same person who undertands him and from their onwards the perfect chemistry starts.is their any one who can understands me then only approach or no matter if she evn has past or stil in present. if u really feels loanely evn u have life parner with u or not then i think she could b my perfect match.rest good luck to the way u think.