Isn't the picture from Alex Grey awesome? That is what I want to feel the next time I kiss a man. Sparks emanating! If you are under 38 stop here no matter how cute you are. I am over 5'9, blonde hair, blue eyes, approx. 145 lbs. I am a headstrong intelligent woman and not a girl. I have been told I'm beautiful (although I have my reservations about that one) and I have no problem getting attention from men, its just not always the right men. I am technically married but separated within and still reside in the same home till we both move on. I have slept in a separate room almost a year now its getting old. It is over for us and we do our own thing. I am looking to carry on but I have a home to consider and yes, I am very picky. I am looking for that instant karma when I see a man. I am a very giving, loving person, but don't f with me. I love Clic Rock music and hate country twanging (aside from a few choice songs) . Pink Floyd being one of my favorites. I also listen to people like Dan Fogelberg and new stuff like The Foo Fighters, Blue October, Nickleback and The White Stripes. I love to cook and eat healthy for the most part, my weaknesses are pizza and chocolate pudding. I love nature and have a thing for trees. I like going to theater plays and finding new and out of the way places for good food, drink and people. I smoke and I drink and need to quit the smoking it may take some time. I like to party but no chemicals please, crack kills. I love to give as well as receive a good mage, sometimes I find it better than sex. You laughed at that didn't you? I like to read crime novels and also love comedy. I like to fish, boating, playing pool, ping pong, etc.. I love all animals except the people kind LOL. I walk 2 miles min everyday and try to keep in shape. I love to read crime novels and love comedy as well. I would give you the shirt off my back if you needed it. I like rugged men that work with their hands. A guy on a bike is nice and not a ten speed (although I like riding them also), but no go-go bar types, that disgusts me . I am really opposed to a married person unless they are in the same situation and are looking to remove themselves from it. I do not want to break up any homes especially those with children still in them, I wont even consider it. If I wanted money, I would have it, but it doesn't hurt. I don't use people. I would consider relocating for the right person in time. Please, if you can't trust I am a real person and send a pic, don't reply. I WILL GLADLY RETURN A PHOTO if I think we would connect. I will do my best to reply even if I don't think so, I have feelings too. It just may be that I am not for you and you are not for me in particular. Please no pics of your parts, I don't need lessons. If you think this is spam get real, after all this? All losers who have a problem with this get a life and leave me alone and quit e-mailing me with your immature remarks, MOVE ON. For those adults who appreciate art you may recognize the picture from artist Alex Grey. I find it fascinating and it reminds me how we are all just flesh and bone and have our own chemistry. PEACE