First off, I am not here to trade pics. I just don't do that. I am not here to have cyber sex with you. I am not here to look for hook-ups. I don't fool around with anyone outside of a committed relationship. And that is what I'm here looking for. Friends or a relationship. So if you're looking for anything else, don't bother. Ok, so that being said, you honestly wanna know about who I really am? I'm just me and that's how it is so if you don't like it then you're probably not the kind of person I'd like either. Overall I'm a nice person, but can definitely be a b*tch when provoked. I am rather pessimistic when it comes to myself and my own life, but tend to be good at cheering other people up. Trust and loyalty are very important to me, but often hard to come by. Music is the biggest part of my life... listening to it, singing it, and playing what I can on guitar. I listen to all types of rock, including, but not limited to, goth, alternative, industrial, metal, mainstream, punk, and clic. I also enjoy writing - journaling, blogging, poetry, etc. I love to draw as well. I am definitely interested in "the darker side of life". Goth is a lifestyle choice to me. It defines who I am as a person.So if you have a problem with that, again don't bother. I won't be changed. I have always loved animals and am sickened by the abuse they undergo, especially for cosmetic, warfare, and entertainment purposes. Thus I am an animal-rights activist and vegan. I can't tolerate people who are arrogant, shallow, and/or overly-judgmental. I am none of these, I promise you that. Permission granted to kick my if I ever am. What I'm looking for in a guy is someone who is trustworthy, accepting, and understanding. Someone who's not afraid to be himself. I'm just looking for someone I connect with. And if you are looking for someone who will make you laugh, stand by you, and treasure you every moment, you've found her.