Here is a little about me; First and formost I am a momma of 3 wonderful children, they are the light of my life. my kids are my world. I love my kids with all my heart, they are my life's greatest joy and the most important people in my life. no one will ever come before them. I am 5ft5 tall, with short brown hair, and brown eyes. I love tattoos and piercings and have several of each. I am 420 friendly and a light drinker on occasion. Please no hard drug users or heavy drinkers, as I am seeking a mutually healthy relationship. My favorite colors are black, purple, silver, lime green and cobalt blue. I am also looking to connect with someone on a deeper level, maybe even find a bestfriend. . I am VERY family oriented and I would be open to dating a single father. I am a great listener and am very trust worthy. I treat everyone with respect and expect the same in return. i am NOT looking to trade pix, i dont send nudes, i dont talk on the phone because i absolutly HATE it. i dont cyber, nor want to see pix of you . It would be nice to meet someone, fall in love and eventually settle down... im not in any rush though. thats more of a long term goal :-) i think its what every one wants, eventually. i have 23 tattoos, 10 body piercings and 23 earrings. i am planning on eventually having both arms fully sleeved from wrist to shoulder, my entire back covered, some more chest/torso pieces, both legs sleeved from ankle to right below the knee and then a tattoo on the top of each foot. body modification to me is beautiful. i am planning on getting my septum pierced by the end of the year, i am really looking forward to it. here are some of my hobbies. i love nature, both spending time in it and photographing it. i love going camping, to the beach, tide pooling, nature walks, taking my kids to river and the park. i crochet, knit, draw, paint, sculpt, create things, cook, write poetry, listen to music, watch movies and keep in touch with friends online. musically i like pretty much anything aside from most country, most rap, most pop, most dubstep and most reggae, there are some exceptions to these genres but they are few and far between. . my favorite genres of film are horror, sci-fi, action, suspense, thriller, and intelligent comedy. sophmoric humor tends to irritate me. only exceptions i make are for some Jack Black and Seth Rogan movies. ive got a bit of a crush on both of them. i also freely admit to liking most Pixar and animated Disney movies as they please my inner child :-) here's what i am looking for in a significant other: open-mindedness, honesty, nice eyes, good with kids, not obsessed with either sports//guns, loving, cuddly, affectionate, chemistry, patience, integrity, long hair, good hygiene, non addicted to drugs or alcohol, non tobacco consumer. i am looking to get to know someone for at least a few months before making an educated decision as to weather or not i should concider dating someone. i dont believe in casual sex.