Recently separated. Figured to sign up and see what the site was all about. Was married for 11 years, have 3 children that live with me. My children come first before everything and anyone else. What am I currently looking for? I am looking for honest women, who are independent, stable, and past the bull**** games. I would like to date women, and establish friendships. Not looking for one night stands, or quick hook ups. Not trying to get remarried right away, so if your intentions are to find a man to marry you, most likely won't be me, not for awhile anyways. If you are looking for a sugar daddy, you won't find that with me. If you are looking for someone to send you money to help you get to the USA, or whatever other scheme you think most men will fall for, you will be wasting your time with me. I am honest, probably to a fault. I am also a bit of a skeptic. So once we get past the initial formalities, I would most likely want proof that you are who you say you are, and that it is actually you in the image. If you haven't read my profile, then our conversation will be short lived.