Looking for the not-so-perfect female friend. Maybe she's here, maybe she's not. A attractive woman with a beautiful heart on the inside, independent, can take care of herself, has self respect, honesty is a must, not afraid to laugh at dry humor, and can appreciate a man who will open doors for her. I desire a woman who can be spontaneous, whether a phone call for dinner, an evening walk at sunset, a skate in the park, an impromtu road trip, or just hanging out at the house for the evening brainstorming on what to cook for dinner. I'm a gentle-natured guy, sometimes shy, sometimes not. Good listener, polite, affectionate, kind-hearted, gentle-natured and by no means a perfectionist. I'm involved with Big Brothers/Big Sisters and have learned much from it. I enjoy golf on a 100 degree day, tennis on the burning pavement, raquetball without eyewear, rollerblading without safety gear, camping in a rainstorm(uhmm..not so much), watching live baseball at the ballpark, dining out for food and beverage, road trips to nowhere, listening to inspirational music at full-volume, singing in the shower till the paint peels off the walls, deep conversations about life, love, politics and God. Side-splitting humor, working like a slave-boy, and burying my butt on a soft sandy beach that overlooks the blue-green watery horizon where the population is next to nothing(now I just have to find someone to do that with?). I am self-employed and enjoy my career each day. I believe in aspiring to a positive atude no matter what life hands me or where my current situation stands. I have my own home, own job, own car, own life, and all my teeth. My music tastes relate mostly to Rock, 80's, Christian contemporary, Blues, but not exclusively. I also am a person that loves to go out of my way to support my partner and do small things that bring a smile and make a day better for my partner.