I'm 6' 165lbs, dark hair and blue eyes. I do have a 6 year old son (Aidan) in which I'm divorced with the mom since 05'. There is no drama between us, we actually have not spoke in about 5 years. My son lives with her and I see my son every other Saturday in which my family contacts her. I have been through a lot for my age. I do live at home for the time being. I have a 3 bedroom apartment downstairs at my family's house so it is private. I have a vehicle but I am selling it and buying a new one. I am about to get my license back in a few month so by summer time. I know it is a big inconvenience for me not driving right now but if your not materialistic you will look past that :-). I am working on myself right now, getting my life together so I can share it with a loved one. I don't have much to offer right now besides love, affection, and the little things that I can show a woman. I'm very romantic and pionate! I wouldn't mind being in a serious relationship. I'm just recently putting myself back on the market. I'm a sweet guy and I can say my attributes are, funny, caring, romantic, cuddly, affectionate, outgoing, spontaneous, flirty, happy, social butterfly and others that I would like for a woman to see. I'm at that point in my life where I would love to settle down with that right woman, where ever she is. I honestly want that relationship where no matter how long we have been together each day feels like the first day we met. I believe that love is out there somewhere. I'm very down to earth and I'm really easy to get along with. What I'm looking for in a woman is for myself I would like her to be physically attractive to me. I'm not shallow in any way but honestly, in order for me to have any interest relationship wise, I have to be physically attracted to her. I would like for her to want to spend time with me as much as possible, yes I agree with alone time and space, but I also believe if it's your soul mate or your true love, you can be with each other 24-7 and never get tired of one another. I do have goals in my life and I will meet them in the near future. I would like to go back to school and recieve a bachelor degree in criminal justice. I was in the Military (army) in 2001-2002 honorable discharge, and since then I've always wanted to be a member of S.W.A.T. Within the next 5 years I would like to own my own house and hopefully be settled down with that special somebody and possibly have a little one on the way Well I said a lot so if you want to know more about myself and get to know me, don't hesitate to message me. DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF: Your materialistic Shallow Bi-polar Party a lot Shy Do drugs Married Still in love with an ex Tell people you don't have problems (Everybody does) Not family oriented Don't like kids Not ready for commitment Looking for a hookup. I may look like the bad boy type but I'm really not. I have no record besides a dwi in which I took my punishment of jailtime like a man, and am still paying for it. About to have my license back in a few months and I don't really drink anymore. First Date- It all depends on the cirstances but honestly I think just relaxing at home, me making her dinner, watching a few movies and talking getting to know one another. But of course I enjoy going out to dinner and going out to the movies and what not but when you first meet someone it's nice to have alone time and be able to have privacy so you can have a serious and deep conversation about anything. I would love for a woman to not mind staying in on a Friday or Saturday night and just watch movies and cuddle all night long. Walks, fun times, laughs, and affection is a definite plus. I don't want to hear a woman complain that I don't have a license for the time being. I'm telling you ladies right now that I don't so you know what I'm about. I'm in the process of finally getting it back soon. I'm very blunt and upfront about things so take it or leave it, I'm very honest and telling you how it is from the start.