My hair is blond when I have hair. It gets so hot out here that I just shave my head to help stay cool. I'm now looking for local adventures. I think I've seen all of the tourist spots in California. I would like to find out what else is out there. Being in the Marines, I run alot...usually before work. It helps wake me up. I'm old fashioned in many ways. I'll hold the door for you. I'll help you with your coat. I'll pull out your chair. At this point in my life, I realize that when the time is right, I'll meet the right person. NO one night stands. NO friends with benefits. I'm not interested. I outgrew the bar scene many years ago. To relax or have fun, I go to the beach. I still remember the first time some friends invited me to go to the beach in November, I thought they were messing with me. Sure enough...we went to the beach. Who knew? I have been in the Marine Corps for over twelve years now. I plan on retiring from it. What am I looking for: You are goofy at times and we can laugh at ourselves. We know when to be serious and when to play off of each other. You must enjoy forehead kisses and back rubs, or do a convincing job of pretending. We dress to be comfortable, but we both clean up well. A nice evening would be getting dressed up for a casual dinner followed by dancing, or making something at home and then enjoying a movie curled up on the couch.