I am looking for a friend that will turn into a long term relationship. I am in an unhappy and unhealthy relationship and I need and want to move on. Honesty and open minded female is a must. My youngest is a 13 year old honor roll student and athelete in NJ, so if you don't like or can't deal with kid please don't reply. He is a big part of my life and spends every other weekend with me. It doesn't mean I can't see you at those times, but it does mean what ever I do, he will be a part of (unless it's one of the visits he chooses not to come to because he has something he wants to do in NJ). Also if you have kids and they are like babas kids; keep it moving please.