am a guy that believes in being honest, fair and kind and tries to be considerate of my loved one at all times. After my love comes home from a long day at work or school, I enjoy giving her those back and shoulder mages, including rubbing their heads or scratching their scalp. I am not the most romantic guy, but I try to make the effort to be romantic and treating them to a nice candle lit dinner or a warm bath. Cuddling is an important thing to me too, sometimes it is just nice to sit in front of a nice warm fire and cuddle and just spend time together sometimes without even saying a word to each other. I take time out of my day for my love, whether it be at work or at home, she is more important to me then meetings and schedules. I want her to know that she is the most important person to me and my attention is focused on them. Dinner could be a quite dinner on the deck watching the sun go down or a night out on the town at a nice restaurant, dancing the night away or taking a walk along the waterfront in the evening enjoying conversations and each other. I take a lot of interest in my love, her work, her school, her goals and her desires, it is important to me to encourage and help out in any way I can so they can reach their goals. I take as much interest in their lives as well, so if they like to go to the movies or shopping or whatever their hearts desires, I will be there with them and enjoy them with them..or give them time on their own if they need that too. I love a woman that is intelligent and humorous, beautiful and well rounded, and someone that can laugh at themselves like I can laugh at myself. It is important to any relationship to have a balance of these qualities. I like a woman that I can challenge or that can challenge me, not in a bad way, but in a way that only makes both of us stronger and closer together. Someone said that a spirited woman is to avoid, but I think that a spirited woman is a joy to be with, because I know she is as pionate about life as I am.