Widowed 2 years now and ready to get my feet wet again. I'm honest, caring & loyal to those I care for and expect the same. Friends first then see where it takes us. I'm a smoker who is working on quitting these damn things; one day at a time and one of these days will be my last as a smoker. I do like a drink once in a while but don't do the bar scenes. Family comes first in my book and I'm also a grandparent raising two young grandkids....they do take up a lot of my time and are my priority, but I still get lonely. Not looking for another hubby and I do realize my plate is pretty full, so I guess I come 'with baggage'.....I'm human and do get lonely for male companionship. Friendship first and then we'll see where it leads. Still interested after reading all this? Send me an email. :)