I am fun loving, like going to parties and like to find someone like that. I am also not a hot to trot kind. I am interested in a man who believes in treating a woman with respect. I want a man who isn't scared or unconfortable wearing a tie. I like to go to the Buel Theater for musicals that come to town. I have found that these dating sites are sometimes giving men the idea that if your looking for a man to date that your all ready to hit the bed because they bought you dinner or a movie or anything. If your that kind just keep looking. The right man will get all the perks but he has to be a special man with the right values. I love my family and I spend alot of time with them. I am looking for the right man to be with forever. Marrage is not my intension ever, but along term relationship is what I am looking for. If you don't live together the fun and companionship is alot more fun.