If you are looking for the "Bad Boy type" you just might want to move on. I'm the type who will be there for you on "Those Nights" ! Hi, my name is Bob Let me just say, everything I say now and going forward will be right from the hip. So, here goes it. A little about me: I'm of Scotts/Irish descent. I'am told I'm handsome and look and act younger than my age (Thanks Ma!) Lol I'm also told, I have soft warm eyes (and no not Mom)!! I'm very clean and take pride in myself in how I dress for any occasion. My thoughts are this, I'm a reflection of you, as much as you are a reflection of me. Though I have a (3XL) frame, I'm healthy very active and I carry myself well. I have a daughter, she is my little angel. She lives on her own, has lots of friends and works full time in Health Care. We talk often so she can keep me in-check and it usually comes with a fee. I'm not super religious. However, I do believe in God and I try to go to church often. (Catholic) I'm very laid back and easy going. I never stress over things. Two things I believe to be true in lifes most demanding moments. It will just work itself out "or" , you just need to work a little harder to get it done. For fun: I'm an avid golfer and I like to play different courses all over New England. So, if you too are into golf, we could have a twosome right from the start... (Golf speaking that is!) ;-) I love to wine and dine! Find those places everyone rants over and its always something new. I like taking day trips on the weekends and hooky days. No plans, just load up the car with a couple ideas, pick a direction and go. Just remember to pack an overnight bag! My last day trip ended up in Savanna Ga. LOL I must have taken a wrong turn off the Pike somewhere! I had to call into work sick for a day or two just to get back! I enjoy carrying-on acting silly or just being peaceful. Relaxing over a glass of wine at a camp fire; listen to quite music, taking a moonlight walk on the beach, letting the sound of the waves lead the moment. I'm not much into the bars / pubs scene. But, I do like to go out for an adult bevearge or two (ok sometimes three) with friends or to meet new! As you can see, I'm no couch potato but I do enjoy some down time (cuddle time) stay at home with some hot coco nips and popcorn watching sports and/or a good movie on TV. I'm old school when it comes to Romancing. Think of it like, "Smoked BBQ"! Low and Slow.... B-) For music: I like it soft and easy, Old school R&B, Motown, Smooth Jazz, Country, Soft Rock and Light Blues. My wild side would be a little road house blues with Lynard Skynyrd, ZZ Top or Stevie Ray Vaughan. My favorite side would be slowing it down and getting real close with the likes of Luther Vandros, Berry White, Marvin Gaye, Teddy Pendergrass or Al Green. But, ((("Shopper Beware"))) there is some classified material within this mix I'm not willing to share with just anyone. Like I said, I'm really a laid back kind of guy who loves to take his time and romance it old school. What I'm looking for: This is the easy part... I'm no prize! And you don't need to be ether. But, if you come rolling up to me in a two wheeler or a walker! LOL, I will hand you a nice date rose, buy you a nice cup of coffee, strike-up a suitable conversation, then I will give you a kiss on the cheek and send you on your way happy! God love you! Other than that, just be yourself, honest and genuine. The rest can't be deceiving. In the end, I hope to find you. My special someone, who I want nothing more than to look forward to come home too. A someone who appreciates and understands a man just sometimes needs to feel loved and accepts him for wanting nothing more than to care for someone who wants to be loved. ... Well, I hope I did alright! If so, let me know. - Later XOX