I would love to have someone to come home to , to look across the table at while enjoying a great meal.I believe that in order to find that special person it takes a whole lot of looking & lots of help from the powers that be in order to weed out the wrongs from that one person you were meant to be with. It may sound corny but if you do not have at least a idea of what you think you want in that person , then you might be just settleing for the wrong one .I truely believe that you should take the time needed to be sure . You will know in your heart if it is real.