I have been regrouping for a number of years so have not dated other than friends. I have been content to be alone for this time. Now that I have made a lifestyle change starting last january my atude has changed. I love women and try to please but don't like dram. I have been in control of my time for a lot of years and am ready to share operative word share. I like to dance especially latin, I lock rock and roll and country as well a blues and clical. I am a voracious reader and usually read two or more books at the same time and periodical, Love the patriots, like animals especially cats. Like to dine out or go to theater, I usually go ten or twelve times per year. don't like big crowds. And I am not possessive or jealous and am non violent so if you want a bad boy it won't be me. I have a great sense of humour and love to laugh at life and myself. Iwould l to meet a lady who is in control of her life not too heavy and not a couch potato. looks are important but you know if you like the person they get better looking everyday, so I don't make instant judgements based on a picture, mine come out horrible