I have been single for more than 10 years and I am a little nervous about this. But I am willing to be open to meeting someone. I love to laugh and can find humor in almost any situation, however I am not a clown I know when to be serious. I am very grounded. Music can calm or energize me. My initial shyness is sometimes mistaken for aloafness or not caring, When I am comfortable I can be outspoken. He needs to have a sense of humor. It is good if he is more spontaneous than I am. He needs to be sure of himself without being pompous or arrogant. He needs to be a man of his word.