Well here goes nothing! Who am I, I am very eclectic. My interests and activities are as varied. I guess the rule of thumb would be, “When you’re with good company, anything can be a joy!” I believe in pion, in everything. If you can’t “get into it”, then let it be. I don’t believe in letting things get mundane or boring. If that happens it simply means you need to do something, act, or better inter-act! It can be as simple as talking about something you wouldn’t ordinarily. I want to find that person who makes me want to open my eyes each day. The one I want to tell all the good and sometimes even the bad events of the day to. That person I feel restless unless I have said goodnight to. I love music, from clical to hard rock. Although I can't get into rap, sorry! I love movies. I read books. Though most would say geeky ones, mostly historical. I like to be outdoors as long as I am active with something even if it is a walk. My motto would be "To engross myself in life till it engulfs me." I believe in living life with pion and laughter. Monogamy and dedication is not negotiable. I believe in dating one person at a time and want the same respect given to me. If I am interesting enough to date, then take the time to get to know me. It either works or it doesn't. But I don't have several on the line while trying to decide which I like best. That really cheapens the interaction between two people to the "most advantageous" business deal. I really appreciate direct honesty. I don't want to have to interpret what someone means when they speak. I really appreciate someone being a deliberate person who gives thought to their opinions and beliefs, but is not close-minded and extreme in their views. I appreciate someone who takes pride in themselves but is not vain and materialistic. When I was younger I thought 40 was close to death, now I realize I am still looking at life like a new adventure to embark upon. I believe in equality and fairness in a relationship above all things. I believe that if you can’t take part in something together that probably means shouldn’t be doing it alone! I believe that we are set on this earth to love someone so deeply you feel without them. What else to say, I feel that I don’t have a type or any strong “requirements” for who someone is or where they come from. Diversity can make for great conversation. I strive to understand what is before me with great detail that includes people. I listen intently to people and the words they use. I do believe there has to be a physical attraction between two people. I think there are three things to making a relationship work. That both parties have to want to make the other’s happiness a priority in their life. You gotta laugh and often. I can laugh at anything. And never stop being affectionate, taking the few seconds to say in action, I like you, I appreciate you, and I am interested in you can go so far to giving peace and security to one another. Well that is more than I intended to say so until then, have a great day!