[b]WARNING, following content is BIG, but it's to help you find me and have a great first date - [/b] I am easy going, willing to talk about anything, I can pretty much find the fun or lighter side of just about any subject, most likely through a bit of sarcasm or observational humor. You will find me doing a lot of activity on the Internet which is a good place to find pictures of me, if you know who I am OR know how to use Google Image Search :) I choose not to put a lot of pictures here, but I am not a bad looking guy, I've been complimented many times and told I look much younger than I am. I challenge you to ask me any thing, really. I like pretty much all ages of women, especially if they don't take themselves to seriously, yet do have a direction in life and don't refer to pictures of themselves in the bathroom as 'selfies'. IF you 'LIKE' me, don't click the button, send me a message...it's impossible for me to bite you through your screen....get out of your own way and just send me a message to say "Hi" ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ [b]About me[/b] San Diego Native, looking for a platonic female friend AT FIRST (i.e. dating) Why, because [b][i]the best advice my mother gave me was you marry a friend, not a lover[/b][/i]... so if we choose we can build on that. I am an educated gentleman with a masters degree in business information technology. I am very well versed in many topics from my life experiences and enjoy stimulating conversation, which has me continually learning and growing. [b]My motto "[i]Live outside your comfort zone![/i]" and my Mantra is "[i]Try anything once![/i]"[/b]. I cuddle, I love physical touch, touching in ping, caressing, give and receive mages (even if you aren't good, I am & enjoy giving full body mages), I can cook, but prefer to do it with someone AND I am allergic to cats...so please don't introduce me to yours, however if you have a DOG, all is good, unless you carry it around. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ [b]What I do[/b] What I do, also keeps me very busy, so I often have meetings and phone calls to work with my business clients. Vague, I know, but it can be a topic of discussion. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ [b]Personal things about me[/b] I enjoy walks & talks, seeing San Diego through tourist eyes, very open minded (nothing is taboo to discuss), rarely do I get embarred, I enjoy laughing, sarcastic humor, reading to improve myself, I do not smoke or use drugs and do not have any STDs! Sad I must say that, but I am glad I ask the question, because it is a real consideration that for me messes up the sexual communication, if and when... I enjoy a bit of sarcastic banter and can dish and take...especially if it is done flirtatiously. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ [b]Some of my favorite TV& movies[/b] Please ask, this would just make for a huge read....in a nut shell, if it's thought provoking, educationa, action, suspenseful or funny, I will probally like it. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ [b]Activities[/b] Rollerblading, Ice Skating, Track Days (yes on my sport bike), 20+ years of riding experience, white water rafting, camping, Road TRIPs!, Skiing, Snow Boarding, Scuba diving, swimming with sharks in La Jolla Cove, Hanauma bay (cut by fire c, that was fun!, Hiked Diamond Head - what a view!), was in the Boy Scouts, canoeing down the Colorado River, desert camping with motorcycles and sand rails [b]WANT TO DO:[/b] Sky Diving, round the world scuba tour, sport fishing... [b]Places[/b]: Alberta Canada, Mexico (San Felipe, Ensenada, TJ), 4 corners USA (just found out that was a fake), New Mexico, Utah, Colorado, Arizona, Oregon, Washington, Texas, Arkansas (funny story there), HAWAII (O'ahu & Maui), Catalina Island [b]WANT TO GO:[/b] the rest of the US, Austriala, England, Germany (castles & Beer), Bora Bora, Fiji... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ [b]LIFE Goals[/b] own multi-family property to have continual income so I can go do what I want, with who I want, when I want....sounds like fun, right? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ [b]Likes[/b] Merlot wine, sampling various foods, good conversation (a true listener), discovering new things in life or rediscovering things forgotten as an adult (example: tidal pools at the beach), swimming and even simple things like hanging out on a playground and swinging in the swings and micro-brewery beer (Sierra Nevada is my favorite), concerts by the bay, Jazz, and quite a variety of music - Love Pandora ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ [b]DisLikes[/b] pushy people, people who think they are always right, clubbing�, fake people, those who think they need to keep up with the jones�, collectors of nick-knacks (mini-hoarders), gossipers/drama, Jagerbombs...ick, liars, cheaters and deceivers, generally someone not trying to be themselves and just trying to impress. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ [b]Pet Peeves[/b] Toilet seats left up, slow drivers in the fast lane, people who think they can drive & talk on their cell phone, people that lie (white lies, okay, but to straight up get caught in a lie is not cool & earns you 2 red flags) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ [b]What I am looking for[/b] 5 6� or shorter, height/weight proportionate(95lbs-135ish lbs), hair color: any, Tom-girl type, look good with no makeup and happy with a pony tail. If you are Asian, Bonus. You do not dress up often except for maybe work or a special night out, however simple clothes are good enough. You are not a couch potato (except rainy movie day), you look for the fun or funny in life and lifes situations. You have ambitions in life, not major baggage(at least active baggage of past relationship problems, probably some baggage, we all do). You work hard at becoming a better you and building your life. I prefer someone without a child or children as I have been down that road twice before and do not think I can do it again, even if I love being a dad.