what to say, my kids are my life i have 3, and i am divorced. i work hard make great living, and i am a good dad that loves my kids. I only drink once in great while, dont smoke, never yell, or get upset. unfortunately i have found the better i treat a woman the worse she treats me. what i mean by this is all the ladies i have been with started out great, i spoil thm and treat them great, i never yell scream, or get upset and over time the begin to take this as me being weak, and think they can walk all over me, and this is not the case. I treat my special woman like a princess but in return she needs to treat me like her prince. I am tired of being treated badly.. i want someone who i can talk with and build a life with, and that will not take me for granted. ,,, hmmm well lets see food .. i like a little bit of everything, mostly home cooked food have eaten out enough to last a lifetime. when it comes to movies i like movies that i cannot guess the endings, I absolutely hate movies if i can tell the ending within the first 10 mins. As for my preference in ladies,, hmmm well i would like to meet a strong woman in mind and spirit, she has an indenty of her own and understands i work alot. i need someone who would work with me to make a good life not work against me. im so tired of carrying the load from my ex... she never worked and just liked to spend what i made lol btw...im not really type to get hung up on with looks as long as she is happy with herself and comfortable just natural.. not a big makeup fan