About me: I'm a very young 41.. 40 minutes of cardio a day.. and outside until dusk most nice summer days. I'm more likely to browse the local library than the local redbox. Don't get me wrong spending time with someone watching a movie/T.V. can be just as good a time as an afternoon doing any physical activity (e.g.: biking, skiing,...canoeing, or even just going for a walk) it's all good in moderation AND of course the person you're spending time with can make any situation special. On a side note I also enjoy a good board game or card game when the opportunity presents itself. I believe humor can elevate almost any situation and any mood. I like to smile, see people smile and make people smile (if possible). I'd really like to spend time with someone that values humor as much as I do. Life CAN be challenging and fun at the same time, and it seems like that it's much easier to have both when there's someone there by your side to remind you if temporarily forget it. YES I have kids and I've found that while parenting can be a sometimes frustrating endeavor the good times out number the frustrating one's 10 to 1, and the 1 can be one of the most bonding times looking back from the vantage point of a few years or decades. I'm not looking for something superficial or for someone for an "intimate encounter". What I am looking for is a real woman with her head on straight and her life in order at least as much as mine is. Someone to create memories and share experiences with.