ok im going to update this seeing as i am getting the wrong responses i am looking for a lady that's right a lady. that wants to be treated like a lady with respect i am not looking to send anyone any money who is stuck in Nigeria and cant pay their bill and get their pport taken i am not here for that i don't want to pay your bill so you can come back to the states i have heard this story about 12xs already and its old. dosent anyone believe in love anymore?the old fashioned kind of love. i mean the kind of love when you get this strange feeling in the pit of your stomach when you look into that persons eyes and you can feel the love in your heart! or the kind of love that when you are gone all day that special someone is on your mind all day and you cant wait to get back home to be with her. that's the kind of love i am looking for a family kind of love and i have a 18 year old he is a part of my life so he has to be a part of whoever is with me. all i ask is that i don't want to play games i don't want to be a sugar daddy i want the real deal i want all of the bells and lights flashing that gos with love i want to be able to hear someone whisper in my ear at night i love you that's all i want someone who will hold me tight when she is scared and she knows that i may not be able to fix the problem but she will take comfort in knowing i am there so please don't play games don't ask me for money what i am asking for is someones heart someones love that's all i want UPDATE! ok here's the deal i am still getting letters from women who say they would like to talk to me and try to get to know me better.then they say im looking for what you are looking for.then the next question i get is whats your job? what kind of work you do? does that matter?? ok i will make this easy and see who really reads my profile i don't work i got hurt on the job 9 years ago i have had 6 back operations at the moment i am disabled and cant work ok now if this turns you off then don't answer my ad however if you have no problem with this then by all means write me but if you write me and ask me what i do for work i will not respond because that tells me you did not read my profile.smile!