Who am I?... Yes... The man in the photos has made his fair share of mistakes in life, as a son, a partner, a father, a friend, a brother & a leader, because he doesn’t always say or do the "right things", even if when he thought he was doing the right thing... Yes he has secrets... Yes he has regrets... Yes he has scars... Because he is real & has a history... But life is a teacher & defines who we are today... Some people may love this man, some make like him, some may not care for him... But that is all ok... What others think does not dictate my life... He has done good in his life... And yes, he has made mistakes... He can be serious when necessary, sometimes a bit random & even silly.... He loves to laugh, even at himself... He is comfortable in all circles from the under privileged to nobility... He can dress up or down, although prefers shorts and thongs in warmer weather... He can be predictable, spontaneous or totally unpredictable... But know this... He is loyal beyond question, is true to his convictions, his word is his bond & he tries to be the best person he knows how... He chooses to help others, has empathy, compassion & is non judgemental... Never judge someone unless you have walked in their shoes... He will not pretend to be someone he is not... He is who he is... What you see is what you get... He loves knowledge & is always willing to learn & try something new... Love him or not... But know this... If he loves you, he is monogamous, he will do it unconditionally with his whole heart... He will stand by you and have your back through thick & thin... He will protect you till the end & he will do it willingly and makes no apologies for being who he is or the way he is... Life has thrown him curveballs & tested him on numerous occasions throughout life from a tender age, yet he has never quit & has always fought back & found his ground again... He may not be perfect but he has worth.... Today I respect myself and like myself... I may not be wealthy, but I am content... I am not looking to change anyone, nor do I wish to be changed... I have a zero tolerance to drugs, women, children & animal abusers, scammers, drama queens & toxic people... I have various hobbies and interests & will share if interested... You just need to ask... I am looking for someone genuine, a lover of life & is non high maintenance... A real feminine girly gal to share friendship, interests, outings, quality time & companionship for starters... Possibility of more if suited... Must be an animal lover... But all good things take time... I sooner be alone than lonely with the wrong person... I have no baggage, emotional or otherwise, although like most do have life scars... With life's lessons comes knowledge & with age comes wisdom... I know what I want & am too old for mind games & just good enough is no longer an option... Money & wealth does not impress me, but inner beauty, honesty, respect and loyalty does, as true wealth is love, health and happiness... I am looking for someone genuine, with a bubbly personality, who values life, who wants to be happy, to feel safe and secure, wants to feel loved & wants to share & create fond memories, share laughter & tears and does not want to grow old alone... As they say my one & only partner in crime so to speak... Who knows what the future holds?... Perhaps it is our time?... Finally please note... Some people hang art on their walls & some choose to wear theirs... I just happen to do both... But please do not prejudge me, else you just may miss the best read of your life... It has been a long time since I have dated, therefore I am pretty rusty... To risk vulnerability again and taking a chance at happiness is somewhat scary to me, yet also exciting at the same time, but nothing worthwhile comes easy... But it just may be worth it... Who knows?... I am only interested in mature aged women... Not interested in overseas or long distance... To know more, just ask... I will always be honest & expect the same courtesy in return... Scammers beware... I am a loyal and good friend to have, but am also a dangerous enemy to make... The choice is yours... Thank you for perusing my page.. May your days be filled with joy, peace of heart & may the sun shine upon you... May you find true happiness & what you are looking for...