Hi I am English and living in north west wales I am a masterfull person looking for submisive female. But that total control requires a lot of trust too. Certainly, I'm no bully or one of those guys who says "call me master" and turns up at your door with a suitcase full of fearsome-looking implements. So I think I'm quite a nice guy. I can be stern and, so I'm told, a little intimidating. When I want to be in control, I will be: firm, implacable and, in a word, dominant. I'm looking for a woman who needs that in her life. I'm looking for a woman who needs to be submissive and obedient But I'm looking for more than that (honestly). I'd like to meet someone I can come to trust and have a life with. I also want to meet a woman who has more to her than just "the scene" -life is richest when we fill it with lots of things rather than fixating on a single pursuit. As I say, I'm dominant but I'm not an ogre and, I like to think I'm a gentleman. I'd like to get to know you quite slowly at first. A person's writing says so much about them, much more than a physical description or a list of kinks, and that's how I'd like to start with you: slowly and patiently. I also like my sub/partner to wear leather, rubber/latex, boots and heels. I like to use ropes crops, whips and bondage but also more importantly I like ertocism. I am not into the scene or wanting to s or share. A relationship to every one else is vanilla but a mere look or touch and we would know different So, I'm looking for a submissive woman. I don't care much about age (18 minimum, obviously) or looks and even less about your income, your formal education or whatever. As far as I'm concerned, you are who you are.