im raising the bar so to speak. im looking for my equal, must have a car, place to live, bills mostly paid, and maby just maby after all that if you are still reading I am tired of the dating games and all the crap that it brings, gota love the "im single but my husband is still married to me goofballs" that is crap just be honest if your looking for your next meal ticket. no fellony convictions please! anyway if all or at least most of my ideals are met then go ahead and let me know if not just keep on surfing and the best of luck to you.