Ahhh the proverbial who am I and what do I seek part....how deliciously philosophical!well lets see......Who I am is certainly a question of perception and preference.I might be your very description of the perfect guy or a complete troll.lol. I dont think its fair for me to ume what you will find attractive or charming but I think I can safely say Im a fairly good looking guy with satisfactory social skills according to majority opinion. lol. That being said...here are the basics: Before anything else Im a single dad raising a baby girl.If thats an issue than you might as well just move on to the next guy right now! My daughter is undoubtedly my first priority and I can ure you as certain as the sun will rise...that's not gonna change! If not.....lets continue shall we?. Ive been single by choice for well over a year. I have had my share of disillusion & after my last relationship decided that rushing into another relationship right away was probably not the wisest move. Specially being a father now. None the less Im a hopeless romantic that still believes true love is out there for me somewhere. I think its time for me to get a bit pro-active and allow myself to connect with someone again. Im looking for something real so if one night stands or casual dating is your thing Im probably not the one for you! Now things like race,weight,and conventional good looks are sincerely second fiddle to an open mind,a loving heart,and a loyal soul. You dont have to be a Nobel prize winner,a smokin video babe, or mother Teresa .All you have to be is a sane and affectionate woman whos ready for the real thing and has no room for bullshyt! The rest will take care of its self. If you actually read this post in its entirety and are interested .....you know what to do.....