This online dating thing is so hard because, people seem to be looking for the man or woman of their dreams, there are so many beautiful women here and so many good looking guys, This is no offense to anyone but does a girl really need to show her T&A to get a good guy, no, does a guy have to show their abs or cars or bikes to get a girl, no. People are so superficial when it comes to looks, and girls want the ab guys and men want barbie dolls, but there are some of us who are just normal people, who look and act like normal people and don't try to be something they are not. To each his own, and I hope people here do find what they are looking for, but look past the looks also.!