I am a pretty cool person you just have to get to know me, mabey this will sum it up,,, These are me and there definitions ........................ MY DEFINITION OF COOL I personally think that being "cool" comes down to: 1) Being independent 2) Being indifferent 3) Being funny 4) Being socially adjusted When you act INDEPENDENT, you lean back, you do things because YOU decided you wanted to, you don't ask others what they think - instead you decide yourself, you are fine walking away from your friends for awhile when you're out, and your feelings are controlled by what YOU think, not what others think. BEING INDIFFERENT MEANS Most people in this world are ATTACHED to the outcomes of things. They're constantly worrying about what's going to happen... and talking about the future in a fearful, uncertain way.This type of person always wants to know what other people think of them, and they're worrying about what they should do so other people will like them. Unfortunately, this almost ALWAYS comes across as INSECURITY. An INDIFFERENT person, on the other hand, just goes about life and takes things as they come. The indifferent person is INDIFFERENT to the outcome of whatever situation they're in. If it's a man, and he's approaching a woman, he will be OK with whatever happens. If she's nice to him, great. If she's uptight, no problem. If she's rich, famous, and beautiful... and starts coming on to him, fine. No big deal. BEING FUNNY THATS EASY Humor is interesting to me, in that if you're funny, it makes people FEEL GOOD inside. They laugh, and it triggers positive feelings. BEING SOCIALLY ADJUSTED MEANS Being at the placewhere other people want to be around you just because they enjoy your company,