I'm udating this ad in January, 2009. Just wanted to mention that so you could see how current my ad is. I have literally given up looking for that special lady that should be in my life, but isn't. I think it's time to look for several ladyfriends to spend some time with online, by phone, or in person. I'm on Yahoo Messenger and my ID is bluesman1a2a3a. Doesn't matter how far away you live, I'd still enjoy chatting with anyone, anywhere. I quit smoking again on Dec.30, so please wish me luck and send your positive thoughts my way if you will. So far, I'm doing really well, but will for sure notify of any change in that. (Which I hope there won't be!!!!) (UPDATE: I started smoking again, but I have cut back considerably. As I'm really interested in chat, that shouldn't make any difference. But I can ure anyone that I may eventually meet with that I won't smoke around them or before we meet, I won't smell like tobacco to you!!!! I think I smoke mostly out of boredom anyway!!!) Though I'm shown as Non-religious, that is not particularly true. I am a very spritual-minded person with my own personal beliefs. And while I will chat with anyone of any faith, don't try to change my views and I'll respect yours also.