I am a good woman who seems to end up with the wrong types of men. I know what I want and have decided that I will no longer just *settle* and if I cannot find the man I want, then I want no man at all. I am fun-loving,witty,loving and affectionate. I think we should get to know each other, maybe fall in love and then we can discuss a more intimate relationship. I have a very soft heart and hate to see people hurt. I have had my share of broken hearts and I would never break anyone elses. I know how it feels to be lied to,cheated on and disrespected and I refuse to be in any situation where anyone gets hurt, especially myself. I would make a good mate, because I put my 100% into the relationship and I do whatever it takes (within reason) to make my partner happy. He will come first in my life and never want for love and attention. I want a man who will cherish me as I would him. Someone who can laugh even if the world is crashing down around us. A positive thinker who doesn't have to depend on drugs or booze for his happiness and can see the good in every situation. Looks make no difference. Money makes no difference. Material things are just that, material things. I can be as happy with a man I love in a one room shack as I could in a mansion. I do not depend on people places or things to bring me true happiness. Just the simple things in life mean more to me. It's all an inside job. I am a good houskeeper and cook and lover. I will never turn my man down when he has needs and I am a very sensual/sexual woman and I can either dress up or down. I can be just as comfortable around poor people as I can with the rich and famous. I can feel comfortable in a ball gown as I would in jeans and a tee. I am mostly a blue jeans and tee shirt kinda gal but I like to dress nice when called for too. I am clean and neat no matter what I choose to wear. I like to smell nice and I like my man to smell nice too. If you can be down to earth and just be who you are and no pretenses, then we would get along great. I would give you the space you require and take only what space I might sometimes need. I am not the jealous type and I am not a nagging type. Horses are nags, not women. I am more into communicating with each other on an adult level and without fighting or arguing. Anything else you might want to know you can just ask me and I will be honest to you. I expect honesty also and the best way to get rid of me is to lie to me,use me,disrespect me or cheat on me. Those are the things I will NOT tolerate from anyone. Life is too short. If I cannot find the man I want, I will not settle for less and I will do without and live alone. I guess that's about all I can say for now. Thanks, Carol