Me...Update: These are my most recent pictures and I've lost 50 pounds, and feel great and look better (still have curves, big smile). I'm outgoing, spontaneous and have a sense of humor, dimples, 5'2, hazel/green eyes, brunette, 8-21-61, I'm someone's perfect 10. I see my lifes gl as 1/2 full not 1/2 empty, even more then that it's a hair over 1/2 full, I'm just a bit of an optimist. Favorite Things...Yellow roses, motorcycle (Harley) rides going nowhere and getting lost, kissing, lighthouses, romantic nights, nice bottle of wine, fireplaces, a few laughs, country music and dancing really close, sweet white Jersey corn, it's garlic or nothing, NYC and Broadway, sign language \m/_ ...I can throw a dart with the best of them it's all in the wrist, will play pool, NRA member, and have done archery, bow anyone? Hobbies and Interests...Finding time for the simple things, walking on the beach and in the rain, spending time with my kids, I have 2. I'm a thrill seeker, skinny dipping, tattoo left shoulder, I love chocolate covered strawberries. If your not a gentlemen please don't bother. Favorite Quote A heavy burden is better carried by two...Need help? A good friend will come and bail you out of jail, but a true friend will be sitting next to you saying, "Damn, now that was fun!" "Only love can conquer hate". You must be first a "GENTLEMAN", then want to live life to the fullest (for the next give or take 60 years...LOL) spur of the moment can be a great thing. Communication and trust are a must...Believe in God and "In God We trust, and "One nation under God" all important to me...A best friend to do and share everything with. I'm easily impressed if you can carry on a "DECENT" conversation, leaving out hand (fingers) or nose size...If you don't know what I'm talking about guys then skip this part. Are you over 250+?... I just happen to like'em big...If your not that's ok too...non-smoker, I don't...You have to be able to communicate that would be a start in the right direction..Your charming and have a sense of humor your batting 1000 already. Don't want a man I can live with, I want a man I can't live without... I'm in school at night getting my math degree, changing careers to teaching high school and my life it's all in the timing...If you like independent and goal oriented woman please email me First DateThe first date, would have to be something creative, and cheap; a train ride into the city with time to window shop, lots of talking and laughing. A bike ride nowhere, with a picnic lunch, the warmth of the sun on our faces. Cheap dates are the best and are usually the most fun.