im single almost 3 years now. just want to meet someone attractive, fun, & honest. someone i can trust and believe in & share the innermost parts of myself with. i am very outgoing, although im 39 everyone guesses that im only about 27 or so. ive tried to take pretty good care of my self, and i dance alot so that keeps me pretty fit. intelligence in an individual is important to me. you could be drop dead gorgeous, but if you cant stimulate my brain, then all the looks in the world are useless. looks are important, even though they arent everything, its the place to start to begin with. add brains to looks and there might be some hope.