Men, If you are NOT CURRENTLY LIVING IN THE USA I AM NOT INTERESTED. When u message me please tell me about yourself. I am looking for a LTR. I am NOT interested in a friends only or friends with benefits. If u do NOT love in NC then u would need to be prepared to come see me or pay for me to come visit you of course at a later date if we hit it off. Also, If u say you are widowed please tell me upfront if you have a minor child and if so whether u are raising that child. See if you are truly widowed then you would be raising your child not some nanny.