I am a mother first and foremost. My daughter is my life and will always come first. I need to find a man that is ok with that or that can understand that. I'm not here to look for sex, in fact, I will not do it again unless it's right for me. I will tell you how I feel but try to spare feelings because I hate hurting people. I am tired of cheaters and people that lie not only turn me off but disgust me. I think it is time for a REAL man who cares about us but can also leave me speechless. I love romance and I can be a tom boy too. I am very family oriented and would like someone with the same values. :)