~~~ 12-30-17 Updated for a New Year~~~ Been alone since 2007,div. since 2009. Yes, I AM very choosy of who I allow into my life. I try to be very careful. Have 2 children, a rescue dog . I am a Christian woman, looking for a Good Spiritual man who will be my best friend. Caring, loving & financially set. I want a 1 woman man~~~ Honest & true. That is what you will receive from me. Treat me with true love,kindness & God's love & you'll have the best friend you have EVER had. If you don't. SHAME on you & you won't be in my life. I earn my respect & expect it back. We walk side by side as a loving couple. Treat me like a lady. Did you love & respect your Mom? What did you learn as you were growing up? From other relationship? Growing in a good direction I hope.I do enjoy some alone, quiet time. I've been alone for a long time. I've not even dated since that separation & divorce. He re married soon after, what does that tell you? I DON't mess around, when I belong to one nor before marriage. NO head games. If that's what you want, go for it, but not here. Once I realize what you are doing, YOU ARE GONE. Just saying ~~~God bless & create a great day~~~ Opal PS: ~~~ NO LIFE IS TOO BROKEN THAT GOD CAN NOT MAKE IT NEW~~~