I am 41 years old, and I am also a widower, after fifteen wonderful years of marriage. I do not have children of my own (my late wife was unable to bear children) and am open to the idea of having children, but if the person I should meet does not want children, I have no problem with that. I am quiet intellegent, caring, loving, loyal and honest; which means when I am involved with someone, I do not get involved with anyone one else. I'm not a controlling person, and I do expect the same and similar qualities from the person I am involved with. I enjoy the simple things in life such as fishing, travelling, horse back riding, the great outdoors, and quiet times together relaxing with a good movie or book. I am not a great sports fanatic, so ladies, you won't find me plastered to the tv to watch the "big game".