I want a honest, truthful, caring, respectful, non-possesive, romantic, trusthworthy, funny, compromising, and there for the long haul type of man. One that isnt afraid to speak his mind to me or others but knows when its best to not say anything. A man that doesnt put his pride in front of his emotions all the time and can admit how he feels. Someone who will be there for me at all times when I need them. Likes to share, is committed, and a one woman man. Someone that can protect me if it came down to it and doesnt let people walk over him. Has self esteem and is confident NOT y. Self appearance must be important to him but not OVERLY important. I like someone who matches and dresses urban. No you dont have to look like a thug or a gangster I just like an urban side to the man. Someone who is interested in rap/r&b music whether its modern or oldschool. I also enjoy video games so someone who I could kick their butt ha ha. I also want someone who is not shallow and wont leave if my looks change. Have to be willing to share and willing to change if it was absolutely needed. Im all these things and willing to be these things so I want someone similiar to me.