Hello there! :) I'm an old-fashioned woman who desires to touch the lives of the people that I've met and about to meet. I'm a born-again Christian who respects other's opinions, preferences and views in life. That being said, I don't shove my faith to anyone's throat and I'm also receptive to different ideas and philosophies in life. I'm not gonna deny though that I believe in God and His promises in the bible even if that would mean funny to other people. I consider myself to have a healthy mixture of an alpha and beta personalities, but I'm generally an introvert (INFJ) who would always prefer a quiet moment by myself or with those who are very close to me. I'm decent, driven and family oriented. I wish I could let others see what's inside my heart and mind to give them a clear picture of who I am as a person (because I believe these are the attributes that should matter), but I don't like blowing my own trumpet, let alone make myself appear better than other women. Simply put, I believe that a man's success greatly depends on the kind of woman he chooses to have in his life. If there's an off chance that I'd be able to meet a "gem in a rubble", he can be assured that he has found a needle in a haystack (modesty aside). I'm far from being perfect, but I'm definitely real. When it comes to dating, my approach is more realistic and skin deep. I don't expect the guy to be a GQ model type for I'm no Victoria's Secret model either. I also have zilch interest in talking to random guys because it somehow makes me feel like a player. Let's say if I'm equally interested in someone, expect that I would devote my time in getting to know him seriously. I'm not a serial dater who's looking for the next attractive guy/big fish available that I can have on my speed dial. If I was born a man, I believe I shouldn't let the woman feel confused about my intention of getting to know her. There's nothing more saddening than to be used as a "rebound" or a past time by someone. I hope that's his thought process too. I'm taking chances on this site because I'm praying to be found by a kindred spirit who desires to honor God and make Him the center and foundation of our relationship that hopefully will lead to marriage. Here's to hoping that I could live up to 70 years or more so I could prove to him that not all women are the same, that not all women are gold diggers/users/freeloaders and superficial. I wish I could let him know that just like him, I'm longing to be found by someone serious...someone who knows that communication, honesty, loyalty and respect are great foundations of a relationship. I may not be one of the prettiest, sexiest, smartest and richest girls out there, but I know for a fact that I have a good heart (modesty aside). A man with substance is all I'm after. Men with pretty faces and nice bodies are almost everywhere, but those with great character are hard to find...