I've been divorced for 3 years, there is no ex drama, and I would expect the same in anyone I would want to consider dating. I have a son - so if you are a no single mom kind of guy turn around now. I love all kinds of music, I LOVE to dance. I have a sarcastic sense of humor. I can laugh at myself with no problems. And anything else more personal you'll have to ask -- I will tell you. I have no filter between brain and mouth. What I am looking for in a guy: Needs to be compionate, and caring. Not afraid to cuddle, or hold my hand and kiss in public or show emotion. (for when/if that step arrives) He needs to knows that communication is the key to any relationship and can give romantic overtures/notions on occasion. Spontaneous at times is a nice quality as well. A good sense of humor is mandatory! I have yahoo IM, but you'll have to message me for my user name.