Hey y'all!! First of all, considering the inbox messages I've been receiving since I joined this site this morning, I'm not a cougar so if you are young enough to be my child, I'm flattered but please don't send me a message. I also have mixed kids (black/white) so if you can't accept that, we have nothing to discuss. I've dated interracially most of my dating years and it's what I prefer. Not saying I'm not open to all races, it's just what I'm attracted to. I'm not looking for a man that needs a woman to take care of him. I'm looking for a man that has his stuff together, is independent, and not a thug! I have a bachelors degree in criminal justice and currently working on my MBA. I'm all about striving to continue to reach goals in life and when I reach those, I set more! I instill these same characteristics in my kids. I can be a goof ball at times but have a sensitive side as well. I'm very goal-oriented and won't stop till I get where I want to be. Never give up & always put God first! 💪🏼☝🏼🙌🏼☺️