About me...hmmm...this is the part that always gets me what to write. I am not afraid to be who I am. I am a 42 yr old mother with grown children. I believe in what Winnie the Pooh says, "it is what it is." I am who I am and its ok to be me. I believe in 100% totally brutal honesty even if it hurts. I would rather be hurt with the truth then with a lie. I don't understand why it is so hard for people to just be up front and totally honest. Why some are so uncomfortable with who they are that they have to pretend. The truth will come out sooner or later why not sooner. I am not perfect and don't want to be, but I work on my flaws everyday. I have a love for the ocean its my peaceful place. I have often been told that I am to open to fast, but I don't believe in holdin back only to find out the real truth later. I would much rather lay it all out there and get that part out of the way to see if there is a chance we are a match. I am lookin for a man that is in it for the long run. One that will stay beside me thru the good, the bad, and yes even the ulgy. I am shy at first, but open up fast. I am lookin for someone that can hold a good conversation ever if we don't agree on things, but we are willin to at least hear the other out. One that understands that there are things we may never totally agree on and that is ok. I guess if there is any thing else just ask I am an open book. No subject is off limits so feel free to ask.