I'm the father of two kids: a daughter, who has two kids, and a special son who needs both parents home long term. I'm looking for a friend / activity partner who is upbeat, dependable, understanding/accepting of my situation, and willing to eventually meet me once we've become comfortable with each other online over time. If we click, perhaps we could bike, walk, bowl, movie, tennis, dine or other activities of mutual interest, again only after we develop a comfort level over time online. I'd like someone who smokes since I'm a closet smoker, (even at this age, shhhh). NO DRUGS! I'm looking for ONE lady who with me recognizes that I can't be her 'one and only.' I'm looking for a long term friend, not a one night stand! I realize my universe is narrow; that I'm not for everybody; maybe not for anybody here, but I thought I'd give this a try. I refuse to lie or otherwise deceive in order to fool anyone into replying. TY for reading my profile, and all best wishes in finding your Mr. Wonderful!