Looking for that one special lady. In order to message JohnInStark, you should be able to answer "Yes" to the following: Do You Know What It's Like? To lie awake at night wishing there were someone near to have and to hold? To want to be able to call someone on the phone and say "Let's go (somewhere, anywhere)? To know you have a friend you can pour out your soul and never be criticized? To know you can tell your best friend and lover your wildest fantasies and never be judged? To have loved and daydreamed about someone who didn't even know you that you existed? There are times when you need somebody and wished the heck they were near? To feel the feeling once again of damp, tangles sheets. Well, hey.... that's what I want, that's what I need! I've recently realized that even though the common saying is that opposites attract (magnets maybe?), once that initial magnetic attraction phase is over, there is not enough similiarity of interests between the two in order to keep a satisfied relationship and allow real true love to develop. When you find out you have little to nothing in common, the relationship cannot grow, so you actually repel each other because you are so different. I want someone like me! Could it be you? I want to feel young again,is that possible? Hit me up for a chat!