I'm new to the singles scene and not looking for anything serious. I'm not looking for a perfect match or fish *smile*. I'm just looking for friends and definitely not sex! I am currently separated, live alone and am in the process of a divorce. No turning back.... I consider myself a good girl with values, ms and respect for myself and others. I am honest and straight to the point. While I love to have a good time, I'm not one to play mind games. I love rock-n-roll, not much into country music but I can handle a bit. I love going to rock concerts, plays, museums, and I love to be outdoors. I love the sunshine, the park, sitting on the deck. I'm a true romantic. Being raised in the south, I'm addicted to sweet tea, love collard greens and grits.I love a guy that can cook and I don't mean just on the grill. My friends are my family. I have family but my few true friends are who help me survive. Having a sense of humor is a good quality that I have and I enjoy someone that will cut up with me and not take me too seriously. I'm responsible, outgoing, and an animal lover. I set goals and I achieve them. I'm not a real big fan of sports but I don't mind attending sporting events because I love to people watch and I love the atmosphere. I don't like liars, even the little white lies. I'm strong willed, determined, and won't let myself be walked over. I love confidence but not arrogance. I admire people who work hard and strive to move forward. I don't mind getting my hands dirty but I won't bait a hook. I like a manly man but one who can also treat me like a woman. I wear make-up and take care of myself. I'm smart, educated and have tons of common sense but on the very rare occasion, I have a moment. I also like smart men who can do it all so to speak. While I enjoy having a few drinks, men that can't handle themselves accordingly or "maintain" simply turn me off. I don't like babysitting. My body type is "average" which is a size 12-14, not 2-10! So if you are looking for a supermodel, I'm not the one. I've had a few bad experiences dating men with children so I'm a bit skeptical of those situations and let me give you a little hint...those pictures of you with your shirt off in front of the mirror are just plain gross!