I am a very quiet person, and some people may take that to be a sign of unfriendliness, however, I really do my best to be nice to everybody whenever I can. I do open up, though - I am just quiet with people I don't really know. I view myself as a very m individual, and will not drink, smoke, or even swear. People may find this odd since I am not religious, but I prefer to take the m side of religion and subtract the actual... religious portion. I feel that, if there is a God, He will accept me for being a kind and m soul, regardless of my religious beliefs, or lack thereof. However, I am also not opposed to "trying religion out", but I simply haven't had the drive or time to do that yet. I do not know a whole lot of people, but am very willing to meet absolutely anybody - it never hurts to have more friends! I very much enjoy helping people out, and like to give people advice to help them out with their problems. I feel that there is no better feeling than helping somebody else through their problems, making them feel better, and letting them realize that there are people in the world who are there to help them. I am currently majoring in Radiological Technology and Health Services and attend the University of Saint Francis. I used to go to Indiana University and was going for a degree in Biochemistry, but it was a HUGE party school, so I didn't really fit in. I am on this site because I have slowly began to lose hope that I will ever meet another m person in my life, so I would like to try to do so here. I would desperately like to meet somebody with ideals similar to my own, and in this world, that is very difficult. What I look for in a girl: - I am looking for a non-partier, a non-drinker, and a non-smoker. Occasional drinking is okay. This is VERY important. I do not drink or smoke, nor do I ever want to. - Between the ages of 17-25 - Virgins are highly preferable, but having had sex once with somebody you were with for a very long time is understandable. - Preferably nearby (within ~100 miles of Fort Wayne), but I would not be opposed to talking to people further away if they match what I am looking for. - I do like gaming (not that I have any time for it anymore), and a girl who likes gaming would be a plus, but not a necessity. - Sorry if this comes off as shallow, but I do have to find you attractive (I'm not very picky so chances are I'll find you to be cute). My traits: - Shy: I would consider myself to be shy at first. If I am not terribly talkative at first it doesn't mean I don't like you, it just means I need some time to open up and become more comfortable a little bit. - Loyal: I would consider myself to be extremely loyal. When I am with a girl no other girl matters to me, nor is any other girl worth looking at. I have never, nor will I ever cheat on somebody. - Intellectual: I enjoy intellectual and philosophical discussions. I think it's worthwhile to talk about things like ethics, religion, opinions on certain issues, etc. to gain an understanding of how the other person thinks (and also because it's just interesting to talk about certain intellectual topics). - Caring: I would consider myself to be extremely caring. I love helping people out both inside and outside of relationships. - Conflict Avoiding: I hate conflict, and I avoid it at all costs possible. This usually comes off as me being rather submissive. If somebody tries to start an argument or a fight with me, I will back down so that no ill-tempers are produced. - Non-Adventurous: I wouldn't say I am a terribly adventurous individual. By that, I mean that I tend not to really try new things, and when I do they tend to feel off and I don't try them again. However, if my romantic interest is extremely interested in something that is considered adventurous, I will try it out so that I can share an experience with my partner and hopefully become closer. - Accountable: If I say I will do something, I will do it. I will not arrive late for things because I know other people are depending on me to be on time. If I do happen to make a mistake, I hold myself accountable for it rather than go around pointing fingers at other people. - Non-Athletic: Sorry, but if you're looking for somebody who is extremely fit or in the army, I'm not your guy. I'm underweight by a bit, but that's due to a decent metabolism/not eating much (I don't get hungry often). However, I am certainly not opposed to becoming more fit if my partner would find that attractive. - Romantic: I would say I am a romantic. I like to say nice things to the person I am with and I like to cuddle. I also like to do those "little things" to show my partner that I care. - Proper: I would regard myself as very proper. I won't release gas (from either end), swear, or be insultive to others. Basically, I try to act mature whenever possible (except maybe for humor value depending on the person). - Adaptable: I am very willing to change myself in little ways for whoever I am with (to a degree, of course). If somebody doesn't like something about me I would rather them tell me so that I can work through that rather than them just cutting off the relationship. There are some things I wouldn't be willing to change about myself, but for the most part I'd like to work things through with my partner to make them as happy as possible. My contact details (contacting me on here might not be the best way to go): AIM: Alsark MSN: Alsark(at)Lycos.com Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1162290608&ref=name MySpace: myspace.com/alsark