My relationships in the past were based on wrong choices. Lust, Comfort, Security... Now for Friendship and love. I lived on my own in a 2 bedroom rented town house with a man cave (large garage). and recently moved from there. I consider myself caring, respectable, and responsible, with a sense of humor. But just to for warn you, I was 635lbs at one time, now mid 400s (surgery) I plan to loose more weight so I want to find someone with a hobby I can join that would keep us both active. I am bad at making them choices but I am always game for whatever comes up. Even canoed down from hover dam last year (thought for sure that little boat was going to be the death of me)... but like I said, I am up for anything. Now I make a ok living, all I ask is that you are not looking for a sugar daddy, donations, free rides (I think you get the picture) I am not cheap, however I consider myself frugal. I don’t mind spending a little more to get the better stuff. I tend to be a know-it-all (sorry) but if I honestly have no idea I either will let you know, or learn about it fast. Internet is a great tool. This is why I am so good at computer repair. I am interested in getting a motorcycle. I was a avid rider till I was 28, I am not into crotch rockets anymore, or out running cops at 140 mph. ( ah the good old days ) Just a Simple Touring Bike. I have a friend who is ill, cancer, so I try to spend a little time each week with him. He was a customer of mine but after seeing him a few times he opened up to me and told me his issues. He needs some time from me now and then. Little More Information: Love all types of music, I use to DJ in my youth. I can rebuild a car, done it a few times. But nothing I wanna get into much unless needed. I can fix almost anything. My IQ is higher then most. I have lived in Las Vegas Since 1992 I like to give more then receive. I like Hot Tea English style. Want another ford mustang; I bought a new ford focus in 2007 but miss my Pony. I love to swim. I wear jeans. But do wear slacks every now and then. I never tried drugs or smoked. My Favorite wine is white zin ice cold, just a few, 2 or 3, every couple of weeks. Pizza IS a food group! I am a true believer that sex is the best way to exercise, what other exercise is more fun?? See... can’t come up with one can you. I can BBQ better then most. I have 2.5 Terabytes of Hard Drive in My PC.. So yea, I am well endowed! (Ok geek joke) I own www.elitegeeks.com domain name, one day will make it a business again. I love Blue/Green I play some online games but not married to it like I was 2 years ago. 3 to 4 hours a week at most, none this week, no time. ( when I wrote this ) I have a daughter with special needs that lives in New York. I have no plan to get re-married anytime soon... but would consider it for the right woman. I have been on dates and even long term relationships with women of all sizes and types. I like large and small women. As long as you take care of yourself and have pride in how you look. Was living on my own for the last few years however I moved in with grandma 2 months ago to save money. She needs someone to keep her company anyway and me living alone was no fun. I do not want to settle for someone that is looking to waste our time. You need to be looking for a true long term relationship in the end. My past relationships were mostly long ones.. Few were short. I have been used, and I now have my guard up a little. Been in love and heartbroken. I am not cold from this and think I have learned a little from the past. I am not the type to get revenge either. I am never abusive. Verbally or otherwise. Always listening however I may not remember everything, sorry. I do try my best to remember little things, but so much goes on in my work life I cannot remember it all. I like many kinds of music. Not a big country fan and I for the most part do not dance, I have 2 left feet. You wanna teach me, I better have a 2 gles of wine in me. I am not a fan of Horror movies but I can watch them. I prefer comedies, action, war and corny love stories. "Can't buy me love" was one of my favs. The ugly: I am still married, however been separated for 16 years. and haven’t seen them in many years My daughter is 17 this December and when she turns 18 I will get my walking papers. My daughter has special needs and her medical coverage is easier this way. She will qualify for Medicare when she is 18 and I can take care of that when it happens. They live in New York. This in a way is like an insurance policy that makes it so we wont rush and do something stupid like get married in 2 months. However I do want this one day. (Marriage) We must have great chemistry and mutual attraction. Who I am looking for: #1 and foremost you must not be shallow. And priority #2 you need to be feminine. You need to be the kind of person that likes to go with a flow (within reason) and laugh. I promise you, I will make you laugh. You need to be secure with yourself in more then just finance. If you need 10 pills a day to just leave the house we won’t work, mental stability is a must. You do not need to be a movie buff or a food critic, but I like to go to movies at least once every 2 week at the minimum and out to dinner. If you life with the aditude that it all works out in the end we will be happier together then if you thought living every day is a chore. Would prefer you like Motorcycles (on/off road). Would prefer a woman with a hobby. Prefer no alcoholics, 1 day a week kicking back with some wine or something is fine. A little educated. I use big words sometimes and would like for you to know what I mean. If these other words falls into your self thought of what you are that would be a plus to... trusting, sensual, pionate, kind hearted, perceptive, positive, intelligent, stimulating, outgoing, funny and a loving even to yourself. If you got thru this far of my Profile you must been interested. To talk to me you need send a Mail, I rarely ever mail anyone. I am usually not the type to make first contact. So best if you send me a message... or forever ask yourself. What if...? I find just one problem; I mentioned so much stuff here that when it comes time to talk to someone, it’s already mentioned... What I’m doing with my life Working as a computer tech. I have a fairly steady job. Been there a few years. Working on getting a house before the economy turns around to much. I’m really good at well.. many things.. I can repair just about anything. I drive a car like I stole it.. not that this is a good thing, but I am good at it. I can cook, bbq and fix many things around a house. The first things people usually notice about me Size... I am a big guy, but I am not lazy or slow. My smarts.... this is a good and bad thing to some people. I am well educated and tend to not be a expert but know enough to not look stupid. My favorite books, movies, music, and food Movies. This depends on my mood. Not into horror flicks. Food would be italian or BBQ. The six things I could never do without Diet soda. Grandma Sisters ( 3 of them ) Computers I spend a lot of time thinking about Why I am solo being such a good catch. And pizza... ( come on you know you are to ) On a typical Friday night I am Headed to a movie, dinner. The most private thing I’m willing to admit here I once stole a few things.. ok, they were cars and I was dumb for doing it. I was 15 in 1985 I was a bad boy once. I have not done anything like this in many many years. And I once drove from Delaware to Las Vegas in 32 hours. Yea that 120+ mph thru many states. I am sure that was not legal either. You should message me if You never want to ask yourself... what if I did take that chance with that sweet guy..? -----//\\-----Please ----//- \\----put this ---|||--|||---on your ---|||--|||---account ---|||--|||---if you know ----\\\-///---someone who -----\\///----has died ------///\----of cancer -----///\\\---or is fighting ----///--\\\--it now........ Keep up the fight Steven!!