Overweight and losing. I'm back online here after many years. Warm, friendly, funny, and caring. I'm very tall and hope you are, too. I love to talk and value intelligence and erudition highly. The best nights involve quiet talks with you and lots of laughter and snuggling. I'm spiritual but not religious. My family stock is Scottish/Irish and German/French. I speak English from birth, with a fair bit of French and some Cantonese and now some Italian. Languages are interesting and fun. The scary part! I am legally blind, but I've been dealing with it for many years. You will not be my personal helper. Hopefully, you're here as my other half. (Yes, I can still see how gorgeous you are. Just stand closer, please.) I'm not fond of alcohol and would prefer you weren't either. I don't smoke either. Tell me how witty you are and that you want to cuddle. I love affection. Be prepared! I really show how much I care often. I love visiting nature. It's much better with companionship. Everything is. I don't want just a lover. I want it all. You and me, side by side, facing anything the world has to throw at us. We watch each other's back. We turn to each other for help, comfort and most of all, love. I prefer a man to be about 45-55. You should be at least as tall as me; preferably taller so I can tilt my head up for a kiss. I like hair - everywhere! I welcome hairy arms, legs, chest, face, maybe even on your bum! And you can be a bit heavy. Especially if there's some muscles too! Be my caveman. Think of this as an investment. I'll just keep getting better. That means your life will too! NOTE: I'm looking for a partner for life, not a tacky one-night stand.