..because they are pretty, or good, or well bred, or graceful, or intelligent, but because they are themselves." Henri Frederic Amiel The dating game, what a scary place to be, and here I thought the teen-agers had it rough. When your older and have lived life through good and bad the rose colored gles tend to come off and reality sets in. I guess that is where you can say I am at. I know what I want and what I don't want and I'm not willing to settle,been there done that and well look were it got me right back in the dating game. So onto a little about me..... I am a single mom of four (yes I said four, better run quick if kids scare you since they are the most important part of my life, thought the oldest is on her own and I now have a beautiful grandson as well.) beautiful girls. They range in ages from nineteen to eight and are the one thing that makes my life absolutely wonderful. I could never imagine my life without them for they have helped me to become who I am, if your a parent then hopefully I am making total sense. Occasionally, I have those moments of wandering off subject and can even lose myself, but wow the conversations that come from it..... I am adventurous and enjoy intelligent conversations. I feel people that can talk and become friends have a much better chance of succeeding at a relationship if that is where they choose to go and if not well then you have a wonderful friend to share things with. Sex and attraction only go so far, in the end you always have to be able to communicate. I am not drop dead gorgeous and I am far from skinny so if that is what you are looking for well then I know I am not the person for you. I am just me, take it or leave it. I like to smile and have fun and I am extremely honest and up front, all the things I expect from a man when I am friends or dating him..... This of course is the condensed version as there is so much more to know....if your interested in knowing more well the ball is in your court.... *on a final and new note.....1 Boy can love a million girls.But it takes a MAN to love a girl a million ways. I want the man that can love "ONE" girl a million ways......if u need a million girls or even more than one to make u feel good then I am so not the girl for you.....