Life for me is complete except on the friendship score. Fairly new here, I'm used to cities where intellects mingle on a higher plane. I'm not on the make so I have nothing to sell. Nor do I have any needs for something on the side. What I do want is a free spirit with verve to laugh with. You can be male, female, gay or disabled, any nationality or race, I don't care. Just be worldly and interesting, and we might make a go of it. Friendship is as necessary to me as oxygen, but I can see how one can become more demanding with time. I have no such issue. I just have to have basic courtesy and reliability as a measurement initially of loyalty. Equals works best, so having something going for you other than good looks is a requirement -- even a great marriage or kids will establish for me you have acquired some wit and wisdom in this wicked world. A sense of play is best.